There was one piece of "advice" that I couldn't get out of my head for a long time:
"Keep it simple - then they will love you"
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I was told this when I was just starting out. When I was still looking for myself and thought that mature, confident people know exactly how to do the right thing π
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"Smooth the edges, don't argue. Don't show temper, don't ask unnecessary questions. And for goodness sake, don't talk too much about yourself - it's intimidating."
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I was trying to be comfortable. To pretend I wasn't hurt, not scared, not important. To hide my thoughts, my desires, my emotions. Smile when I want to scream
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Do you know what that leads to?
Emptiness
I didn't recognize myself in the mirror anymore because of the bruises under my eyes. I couldn't remember the last time I smiled genuinely π₯Ή
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Today I look at that me with love. And I say to her:
You don't have to be comfortable. You're not intimidating - you're inspiring. Just not the ones who were comfortable when you were silent
And now I'm happy. And thank you for reading my posts and supporting me. It's very valuable to me β€οΈπ«
2025-06-22 14:15:06 +0000 UTC
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Flexibility isn't just about the body. It's also about how far you're willing to take your fantasies π
2025-06-21 14:39:05 +0000 UTC
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Flexibility isn't just about the body. It's also about how far you're willing to take your fantasies π
2025-06-21 14:39:05 +0000 UTC
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Sometimes you just want to sit like this... and know that someone else's thoughts are not about work at all anymore π₯°π
Stockings are like an invitation. But not for everyone π
2025-06-21 09:11:10 +0000 UTC
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for a walk on a cool summer evening π₯°
it rained a little and I thought it was a great opportunity to get outside and breathe in the air with a hint of dampness
I love the smell after rain, don't you?
2025-06-20 15:11:04 +0000 UTC
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Okay, random question: why do men make a face like they're solving an equation when choosing a sauce for shawarma? π
Relax, love, get the garlic one - you're already spicy.
2025-06-20 10:12:20 +0000 UTC
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I do this exercise every day and my throat doesn't hurt anymore π
2025-06-19 14:16:05 +0000 UTC
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I think I forgot to put something on...or take something off? π
2025-06-19 09:10:08 +0000 UTC
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oops π
2025-06-18 17:06:09 +0000 UTC
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Sometimes to stay soft - you have to be able to be tough and stand π
I don't fight, I just let my emotions out. Would you dare to be my sparring partner? π₯
2025-06-18 08:08:04 +0000 UTC
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Imagine...
A quiet evening. It's raining lightly outside, your home is warm and peaceful. I'm in the kitchen making you tea - with honey, lemon, maybe a pinch of cinnamon. It's simple, but from the heart π
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You're on the couch, wrapped in a plaid. I walk over, sit down next to you, hand you a mug. It's hot, smells delicious. We are silent and just sit next to each other, thinking about nothing
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I put my head on your shoulder. I feel calm inside. Just you and me. And tea β€οΈβ
2025-06-17 13:58:03 +0000 UTC
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Have a good Sunday and just relax π
2025-06-17 08:02:45 +0000 UTC
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what do you like most about me? π₯
2025-06-16 13:01:43 +0000 UTC
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Front or back? π€π€
2025-06-16 08:07:04 +0000 UTC
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I saw the movie Green Book today. It moved me, yes. But it also left me with a feeling of inner dispute
The movie is about friendship, tolerance, about how two very different people change. And it seems to be about goodness. But I still wonder: why exactly did the black protagonist have to be βsuper smartβ, reserved, almost saintly to earn respect? π€¨ππ Why is his suffering presented as something βovercome with dignityβ rather than anger that would be perfectly just?
Also - the whole story is presented through the eyes of a white man. His journey, his transformation. What did the pianist actually feel? We don't know. We've been given a βconvenientβ story π€·ββοΈ
I'm not against movies about friendship between different worlds. But I want them to have not only a happy ending but also honesty π
Have you seen this movie? What do you think?
2025-06-15 12:51:05 +0000 UTC
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What's the big deal? I'm just walking around in leggings and nothing else π
2025-06-15 08:02:22 +0000 UTC
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Taking off one stocking. want to see what happens next? π₯
2025-06-14 12:47:02 +0000 UTC
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spread your legs wide, or is that enough? π
2025-06-14 08:46:05 +0000 UTC
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do you like girls in leggings? and what about me? π
2025-06-13 13:14:15 +0000 UTC
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I hope you haven't forgotten what color my eyes are π₯°
2025-06-13 10:03:29 +0000 UTC
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Is this just a joke or not? π
2025-06-12 15:38:14 +0000 UTC
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This pose is an invitation. All that's left is for you to make the first moveπ₯
2025-06-12 10:17:09 +0000 UTC
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would you come out to fight me? Or would you give up right away? π₯
2025-06-11 13:04:20 +0000 UTC
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Lingerie stays onβ¦ until you say otherwise π€«
2025-06-11 09:53:50 +0000 UTC
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lymphatic drainage π
2025-06-10 14:07:09 +0000 UTC
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What's the best photo? I can't decide π
2025-06-10 11:32:20 +0000 UTC
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what do you think? π
2025-06-09 13:47:16 +0000 UTC
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will you let me sit on you? π
2025-06-09 11:43:09 +0000 UTC
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I love cookingβ¦ especially when I feel your gaze behind me π What would you like first β breakfast or me? π
2025-06-09 08:33:16 +0000 UTC
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Today I didn't set any goals for myself, I just decided to walk for as long as my legs could take me
I left the house without a specific route. My feet were leading me through the streets and my headphones were playing music that perfectly complemented my mood. I walked about 20,000 steps π
At one of the intersections, I saw a small ice cream shop. I couldn't resist and bought a scoop of vanilla and a scoop of banana. I sat on a park bench, watching the passersby π€·ββοΈ
Later, I called my friend. We hadn't spoken in weeks and our conversation lasted over an hour. We laughed, shared news π
Now, writing these lines down, I feel a nice tiredness in my legs and lightness in my soul. And how was your day?
2025-06-08 19:53:06 +0000 UTC
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